A WOMEN OF GOD WHO VALUES HONOR


A women is unique in Gods eyesight because he made woman for the man.  What women do not understand we cannot be over men.  We are designed to be a help mates to men.  In this church world women have said I won’t be silent anymore.  That is a direct disobedient to Gods word.  He gave the Apostle Paul instructions on how women should act.

I ask my husband if I was a Missionary called by God would you have married me?  He said No.  I wanted a submissive woman who obeys God word and walk side by side with me.  Inside, my thoughts ran wild.  I even called him names from within myself.  I even used the N word by saying old school N.  When I spent time with God and got into his word my husband was right.  God did not tell me to lead this man or try to.  He told me to be submissive in his word.

When we got married my husband said I don’t want my queen working and tired.  Stay home and be beautiful for me when I get home.  Easy said then done.  It took years to get it and it took years to know what God had blessed me with.  Think about it.  What is it you want a real man to do and how you want a real man to act? What do you have to offer that man if he is what you want and prayed for?

A women that honor God and want his full blessings will

Seek God first.

Will speak faithfully and act faithfully in the word of God

Will show true beauty- Keep the head rags off your head and the old house coats burn them.  Keep your self beautiful inside and out.  Let the man see your beauty always

Stay humble.  Work with the one God gave you

Be Godly and look Godly always.  Let your light and beauty shine so man may see you and his eyes will not wonder.

Quiet Time with God

Ladies with all we have to do in life, at times we need time for ourselves.  My Husband was downstairs in his office studying and I decided to take a moment for my self.  I locked my bedroom door ran a hot bath and started meditating on Gods word.  I just wanted to hear the voice of God for myself.  Believe me it was a wonderful recharge that I needed.  I was able to focus more on the task around me.  I received a real perspective of the blessings of God.  I appreciated God changing my life for the better.

With my husband rebuilding his ministry with high goals, I know that I will be caught in the middle of helping him as much as I can to achieve it.  My husband is highly bent on building the Bishop W.B. Lee youth center for disadvantage youth.  I see the passion in his eyes and I feel I am really going to need me time as much as possible.

Ladies take time out for yourself once in a while, you deserve it.   The daily struggles in life you are going to need at least an hour for yourself.  Ladies some of you are doing double duties and it is not easy.  Recharge yourself.  Get your prayer time in with the Lord, sit and listen to his voice,  and get an understanding, meditate on the goodness of the Lord and appreciate wear he brought you from and what he has blessed you with.

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Teaching  Young Women to Believe in themselves

It is very important as older women to teach our young ladies how to conduct themselves as ladies.  Many times we tell our young ladies things about themselves that is on the outer appearance.  Once they hear it over and over again ego then become their problem.  I remember growing up I saw this fat girl.  She was actually born fat and could not be the size people thought she should be.  I know in life she was called fat, but guess what? Her attitude and personality was outstanding.  Yes, she was aware of her situation that she could not help but lived with it.

Today she is married and have some of the most beautiful kids you can imagine.  There are times we tell our young ladies how beautiful they are and they develop the worst personality known to man.  They take those complements and think the world owe them everything.  On the inside they are miserable because they do not know how to contain the complements.  These girls bring children in the world and cannot take care of them.  How unfair.

We must teach our young ladies at an earlier age to always have confidante in themselves but keep other people feelings in mind.
We must teach our young ladies how to have dignity within themselves and to take praises with dignity.  We must teach our young ladies to believe in themselves and know who they are.