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Sunday, June 26, 2016

Tina Lee Editor

What you have to do to be a good wife from a man point of view.

The Bible says “Marriage is honorable and the bed undefined, but whore mongers and adulterers God will judge.” Hebrews 13:4.
Marriage is a beautiful life when it is ordain by God.  For many years I wondered while older generation stayed married for years and years.  Finally, after being married for twenty five years with four

 children, I figured it out.    Marriage is something you must really
want.  You must be ready to change and compromise.  As a woman,    
Our ways is not the man’s ways.  God put man over the woman (after the encounter with Satan) and God word is and deeds is solid.  God will never go back on his word.

When I first got married I was young and was not taught about marriage.  I still wanted to do the fun things in life with my sister and friends.  Before I married my husband he told me what he was looking for in a wife.  He told me he was a Minister and love preaching the word of God.  My husband shared with me all the mistakes he made in life and I was the last woman he wanted.  He told me, ( after me), he was totally committed to a life without a woman in it.  He said God will be his guide and his dedication.  

My husband told me he did not want me to work.  He said he would work three jobs if he had to just so I could look beautiful for him.   He told me he was a clean freak and everything around him, including himself, must be clean 24 hours a day.  My husband would come to bed fresh and smelling good ( he still do that after 25 years of marriage).  My husband told me if he does what the Bible says and love me as Christ love the Church and I be submissive to him, we would make it.  SUBMISSIVE TO A MAN!  NO WAY IN H___! I will just go along with it.
I had to do an investigation on what I got myself into.  So, I meet his sisters by phone.  They told me GIRL, MY BROTHER IS A MAN AND YOU GOT A GOOD ONE!  YOU HIT THE JACKPOT!.  My husband sisters told me what he always expected out of a women and marriage if he should ever go down that road.    I became afraid.  The shoes was to hard for me to fill.  His sisters told me whatever you do listen and remember what he told you.  His sisters said, “Many women lost a good man because they

thought my brother was a joke.  My brother means what he says and says what he means.”   I had no one to talk to on how I could keep this good man from leaving me.  This was the last time in life that I would have a good life.  The more I became afraid of losing my husband the more I messed up.

I found out people I knew really wanted me to fail.  They knew I had something that they wanted to happen to them.  After all, we were in the same situation.  These women wanted a man to take care of them, but they wanted to do what they wanted and the man understands.  These women would not stay home.  These women love going out partying.  These women houses were fifty and so were the kids.  These women did not keep themselves clean and respectable.  These women always pick men with no goals in life but getting high.

It seems like everyone I knew had an opinion on my marriage.

Next week:  The conclusion of What you have to do be a good wife from a man point of view.

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Monday, June 20, 2016


TINA LEE EDITOR                                                        

Dislikes of being a Bishop’s Wife

I explained in the last article what it was like being a Bishop Wife and the excitement it brings.  Like Pastors wives, it becomes a struggle knowing and seeing your husband get beat up by members and other colleagues’ and nothing you can do about it.
Women that marry men in the gospel have to be just as humble and

forgiving as their husband.  As women of  God, we are held to the
same high standard as our husband.  What the world do, we cannot do.  For example, many Pastors wives wear paints to church for one reason or other.  I see nothing wrong with it as long as it not worn during a main service.  My husband, being from the older generation, use the scripture “Man shall not wear that pertains to a women and women wear not that pertains to a man.” Deuteronomy 22:5,  1 Timothy 2:9, 1 Peter 3:3 and Zephaniah 1 vs. 8.

Being married to a Bishop you get the word of God preach to you daily.  You have to be humble to the man while he is talking about the word of God even if you don’t agree.  I love God and my husband so I submit.  When the phone rings (and we could be watching a good christian movie) he stops and answers the call.  I feel my quality time has been interrupted.  However, I understand duties call and the work never is done.  At times, I feel for my husband because of the burden he is under.  In his face at times, I see frustration, sadness, and even joy.

My husband always tell me to let him bear the burdens of the church and not interfere even if they say mean things about me or not.  I find that hard to do because, they don’t know the man I have giving my 25 years of life to.  The dream of my life, how can I let others abuse him and stand by.  It is hard.  Nevertheless, I submit to his wishes.

I am sad when my  husband have to go out of town by himself.  You get use to going everywhere together.  I pray that the plane stay in the air, he doesn’t get sick, he takes his medicine, and someone is always there to look out for him, after all he is disable.

When he is away, I feel apart of me is gone.  I am not
 complete until I know he is in the house safe.  It a joy to know that I have a husband who have set the example of a man who loves God.  He lives by the Bible and truly love Jesus.

 My husband moved back to California where he was born and raised.  He did not want to open a Church and Pastor anymore.  My husband just wanted to travel to his churches back east.  When in the City he wanted to fellowship with  small churches to help them grow.  My husband know the word and God and because many Churches he attend will not let him teach the word of God he decided to do web-cam ministry.  Oh the joy in his face because Preaching the word of God is his passion.

Next week - What you have to do to be a good wife from a man point view

Monday, June 13, 2016

The Praises of Victory Ministries News Letter
   Editor Tina Lee                                

What’s it like being a Bishop’s Wife?

It is fun! I get to travel and see the world and meet new people and learn how other people praise God.  Going into different churches is an enjoyable feeling,  The saints of God welcomes you with open arms even though they may be struggling with their own issues.  I get to stay in the different beautiful hotels and go to the many restaurant the cities offer.  Sometimes we go to the entertainment attractions and stay all day.

It is a life changing experience for me.  It makes me feel humble and appreciate the opportunity God let me experience.  Many people in my life time will never get this opportunity, so this is not taken for granted.     I never dream that I would have such an adventure.  I never dream that it was more to life than everyday struggles.  One may see these place on T.V. and let their imagination run wild.  A Bishop is loaded with responsibilities and must always meet those responsibilities.  As a Bishop wife you enjoy all these experiences.  When I go to the different cities shopping becomes an adventure.  I find that shopping with different Pastors wives will let you see the fashion the cities has to offer.  As I go around with the Pastors wives, it teaches me to be humble.  I listen to the wisdom they have learned over the years.

One particular Bishop wife I hung out with was Mother Commendore.  As a young Bishop wife she gave me wisdom I used today.  Mother Commendore knew God and stayed with God constantly.  She dress like a saint of God all the time.  When people saw Mother Commendore they knew what she represented.  It was obvious.  Her life was a life of holiness she was dedicated to a life of living for God.

Today, I try to take those same principles and share them with young ladies.   As a Bishop wife, many of our young ladies need to see example of how a lady act, how to love themselves, how to dress Holy becoming Godly women, and how to have self-esteem for themselves.    I learned much being a Bishop wife.  What joy it is.

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